Check out this smart graphic by Nigel Holmes.
It's an easy way to see how you are approaching life.
Is it from a fixed mindset or a growth mindset?
This may explain why you may feel stuck or stagnant in an area of your life. I'm sure as you read through it examples will come to mind.
Just becoming aware that you have been living in a fixed mindset is the pivot towards a growth mindset.
You can also check out the video below and the book by Carol Dweck the graphic is based on.